I think many people have the impression that I don’t like to do wedding photography because it is not “serious documentary work”. The truth could not be further away. To say that weddings are not important enough for anyone’s attention is an imperious act.  The truth is I am always fearful of doing weddings. Making people look good is not something I am very good at. Making people look real is what I like to work on. And I am inclined towards catching moments of nuances, such as subtle placements of objects, little ironies, the absurdities of the scene, the light which mirrors what I feel is the emotion of the bride and groom, these little things give a sense of what’s going on that is beyond the first layer. Wedding doesn’t equal happy. There are so many different emotions involved. Sadness, loss, anger, frustration and even boredom! This is the truth and it is real and it is human. When I see a picture, I then try to feel it as well. For every picture, there is always a good reason behind it.

Mandy’s grandmother was wheel-chair bound and looked pensive amidst the rowdy celebrations of the younger generation. Of course, it doesn’t mean she doesn’t enjoy the celebrations, as other pictures of her would testify against. But this particular scene was perhaps, I sense, too noisy for her liking.

I thought it was quite clever to use Skype as a medium to catch the action outside the room while waiting for the groom to clear the stages. I found it hilarious that a person was assigned to be the skype carrier and the look he has in this photograph gives the role so much purpose. When I was photographing, I was always acutely aware that I might be blocking Mandy’s view. It’s a weird variation of having a virtual relationship. And it was strange that a laptop could be more powerful than anyone else in the house.

I always take my eyes off the bride and groom to look for what’s happening around them. Often, interesting things happen. I think this was a moment right after a kiss has taken place, I would think both photographers were checking if they have gotten the picture, while the host prepares to announce the next programme.

I have since photographed a few church weddings and I understand the importance of God in a God-fearing Christian relationship. This picture was my way of showing His blessings and His presence.

Mandy’s sister having her make-up put on while her newborn baby rests in a pram beside.

The wedding had a pop art theme. Part of the wedding set-up was this backdrop where guests could choose from a variety of props to decorate themselves with for an instant photograph at the booth manned by the photo team. After everyone has entered the hall for the banquet, it was the helpers’ turns. But helpers being helpers, they had to attend to every call. This photograph caught a moment between play and work.

Tim is putting together a thank you speech while Mandy, who is having her gown adjusted, looks on.

-kl

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